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    2021: The Year of Bold and Wild Changes

    This might be long overdue but, HAPPY NEW YEAR! I would like to welcome all my followers, both old and new, to my blog and give compliments of the new season to all my lovely readers on this platform. We did it, Joe! So… 2021 – the year we come to terms with the fact that things will never be the same again. Life will be even harder but if 2020 was anything to go by, we all proved to be readily adaptable when the tough got going. We have found ourselves working and living under circumstance that required us to think outside the box when it came to surviving…

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    My Frustrations About Being a Black Blogger in Cape Town

    Okay guys, girlies and gender benders, if you are reading this you most probably know the frustration I have as a blogger in South Africa and you know what, let me go and add “black”. Being a black blogger in south Africa is the pits and whenever this conversation comes up, people are ready to fight with tactless words. Let’s get into this… I have only been a blogger for 3 years this year and I have been having so much fun because firstly, this journey has taught me a lot about being a better writer and what it takes to improve and express myself in a way that my…

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    5 best affordable things to do on Valentine’s Day

    I know I am not the only one who dreads Valentine’s Day and that is for many reasons which one of them is that it falls in the middle of the months and usually involves spending loads sh*t of money. Lucky for you, you don’t have to go around searching for things to do and asking you girlfriends or trying to find out what your girlfriend wants as a token of appreciation. Lucky for me (lol) I get to spend V’Day alone, not by choice though but because I am in a long distance relationship plus I am moving house so we know we can’t be spending a lot when…

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    Tinder Do’s and Don’ts

    Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love…but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love. ― Mandy Hale Every time I tell people that I met Vincent online, I always get questions like “How the hell did you find him?”. Not all men online as idiots and want to stick their junk everywhere with the right swipe. When I met my boyfriend, I was not even thinking I would meet someone I could be serious with even though my profile was specific about what I wanted. All I got were men trying to get at me because they are in SA for a short time and…